69 Rules To Becoming An Invincible Woman
TO CREATE THE POWER TO ACHIEVE WHAT YOU WANT IN LIFE
As a Transformation & Performance Coach I help busy women to take back control of their mind, body and lifestyle. After many years of teaching and coaching and being coached myself I’ve put together a list of rules and life lessons that will help you become Invincible in your body, mind, relationships and business so that you have the power to achieve what you want in life. I have also put these rules into a download so that you can print it off as a visible reminder to help motivate and inspire you every day. Full details of how to get your copy are at the bottom of this page.
BODY
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Fuel Your Body
With the most nutritious food possible - Protein, veg, good fats & starchy carbs when needed & track your intake.
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Keep Hydrated
To keep the body and mind functioning at its’ best. Minimum 2L.
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Protect Your Health
7 days a week, not just Monday to Friday.
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Wine & Chocolate
Understand the importance of them both.
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Exercise Every Day
Even if its’ just 10 mins HIIT.
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Lift Weights
2-3 times a week.
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Protect Your Energy
And get 7-8 hours sleep if you can.
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Rest Is Required
For high level performance, it's not a reward. Slow down so that you can speed back up again mentally & physically.
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Listen to Your Body
And act on the feedback that it gives you.
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Measure Progress
In a way that serves you as we are happiest when we are progressing.
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Have A Massage
Every 4-6 weeks
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12
80/20 Rule
Live by the 80/20 rule.
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You’re Mentally Stronger Than You Think
When your mind is telling you you’re done, you’re really only 40 percent done.
MIND
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Your Current Reality
Take FULL responsibility for it. You created it, you are in control of what is possible moving forwards.
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Know What You Want
And how you WANT to feel otherwise you will drift.
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Why?
Know your why & use it to fuel your progress.
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Set Goals
Outcome and process goals or your mind will create problems for you to solve.
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Do What You Said
You would do & understand the power of what needs to be done today to take care of tomorrow.
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Enjoy the Ride
Life is a journey, not a destination - there is no happy ending to an unhappy journey.
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Journal Your Wins
And celebrate them to build and protect confidence.
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Meditate Daily
To slow down your thinking.
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Question Your Thoughts
And beliefs as they create your reality. If you believe you can’t you can’t.
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Question Your Excuses
What you feel is always right, however, the root of those feelings may be based on lies.
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Live in the Present
And embrace whatever is happening right now.
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Flip Negatives
And take positive action, do positive, not think positive.
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Focus on Facts
As feelings and emotions blind you and you will become a victim to them.
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Go After Your Dreams
Go with your instinct & live the life you want regardless of what others will say.
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Embrace Fear
And use it to push you forward not hold you back.
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Choose Your Reactions
And FOCUS wisely as stress, suffering and happiness are choices & you get what you focus on.
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30
Good & Bad Experiences
Are only the perceptions of man.
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Should & Shouldn’t
Don’t exist they come from comparison. So don’t use them
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Nothing Changes
If nothing changes. Change your beliefs to change your behaviour and results.
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Increase your Capacity
To deal with stress rather than avoiding it, letting it build up or masking it.
RELATIONSHIPS
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34
Love
Yourself and others.
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Invest In Yourself
As it’s the best investment you can make. You are the most important person in your life.
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Be Your Own BFF
(Best friend) as you’re going to be with yourself for a long time.
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Give Up On
Who you think you should be & accept who you are. Let go of your limiting beliefs.
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Be True To Yourself
In all of your actions & the truth will set you free. Your life takes on a whole new level of joy you never thought possible.
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Stay Present
In your own life and mentally out of other peoples. A lot of our stress comes from mentally living out of our own business and in other peoples.
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Your Perception of Others
Is a reflection of your own reality. Remember this when you go to criticise others.
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Don’t Take Criticism
Personally, as it’s not really about you.
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Don't Compare Yourself
To others as we are all different. Compete with yourself.
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Empathise & Understand
That everyone is doing the best for them & you will stop wasting time and energy on being angry and annoyed.
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You Can Blame Others
For their actions but it’s your responsibility to deal with it.
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Learn To Let Go
Learn to say no without guilt & explanation, admit & apologise when you are wrong.
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Give & You Will Receive
The greatest gift you can give someone is your time. Give more than you receive.
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Give Your Friends
The time and effort they deserve. Don’t get so caught up in your own life that you let great friendships slip.
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Give To Yourself
Be willing to give to yourself and do so with joy, not with guilt. (Tony Robbins)
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Ask For Help
When you are struggling as it’s the easiest way to get what you want.
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Teach By Example
Rather than preach as trust and loyalty come from seeing results.
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Be a Good Role Model
As your children will model your behaviour.
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Don’t Expect
Others to do what you aren’t willing to do.
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Appreciation
Acknowledge the people & things you appreciate every day.
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Tell Your Partner
And Family what you love & appreciate about them.
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Surround Yourself
With people on the same mission as you as they will support and push you to a higher level.
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Keep Accountable
Publicly or to a coach - as it’s too easy to fail in private
BUSINESS
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You Must Fully Commit
As you don’t get what you want, wish for or need you get what you ruthlessly commit to.
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Take Small Steps
To get BIG results as big steps can be overwhelming & hard.
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Consistent Action
Not perfect action is the key to long term success.
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60
Chase Happiness
Not money as the 2 are not the same.
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Keep Things Simple
As when we complicate things we give ourselves an excuse to fail.
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Be Prepared
Preparation precedes victory. Preparation plus planning = success.
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Get Away From Comfort
As anything that matters in your life is not going to be convenient or comfortable.
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Surviving
Some days are all about surviving. You will have bad days and its ok.
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Get 1% Better Every Day
Practice & study every day to increase your capability.
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Information
Does not equal transformation so stop collecting information & take action on it.
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Do What The Majority
Are NOT willing to do.
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Set Deadlines
For EVERYTHING.
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Schedule
Absolutely EVERYTHING.
When you become Invincible in mind & body you have the power to achieve what you want in life.
The busy modern woman can have it all.
A career, hobbies, family, regular holidays a social life, to look and feel amazing and feel valued for what she does.
So get started on applying these rules to your life.
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